tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post275648212103817300..comments2023-10-26T10:50:32.130+01:00Comments on Free Your Mind: Coping With a Mentally Ill Friend or RelativeFree Your Mindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01195205284778002096noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post-76022387352890561932013-05-06T01:53:21.117+01:002013-05-06T01:53:21.117+01:00I have a schizoaffective friend who is on plenty o...I have a schizoaffective friend who is on plenty of meds and is in therapy, yet still claims people rob and have robbed her. She repeats the same stories about those who have robbed her ad nauseum. She thinks she's "normal." It's really annoying dealing with her sometimes. She thinks she's only depressed, and doesn't face the part of her that hears things and is delusional. I am getting very disgusted, but because I am bipolar, I feel bad, and try hard to just be a good friend. A "normal," person would have run away screaming. I know that sounds mean, but it's true.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post-50479021963749429972013-04-05T09:52:55.044+01:002013-04-05T09:52:55.044+01:00I understand that people can be difficult when the...I understand that people can be difficult when they're ill. But you are wrong if you believe that mental illnesses are not treatable.<br /><br />I don't believe that "Nothing helps". <br /><br />Psychotherapies - and psychotherapy & medication combinations - have been found to be VERY effective in treating mental illnesses.<br /><br />I don't believe my opinion is, "politically correct bs." <br /><br />I wasn't trying to be politically correct; these are my opinions, coming from the perspective of someone who has a mental health diagnosis and is receiving treatment. (Although the bit above about mental illnesses being treatable is more of a fact, rather than just my opinion.)<br /><br />Anyway; that is my opinion. If that opinion happens to be politically correct, as well as my opinion, then that is fine with me.<br /><br />I must admit, I have no idea which comments you are referring to. Are you talking about one of the other posts on this blog?<br /><br />Thank you for reading and commenting.Free Your Mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01195205284778002096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post-86075428115576831942013-03-03T17:06:15.571+00:002013-03-03T17:06:15.571+00:00I agree with the other poster. We have to resort ...I agree with the other poster. We have to resort to "dealing" with our mentally ill relative because they are too irrational to help. Everyone else avoids having any contact with them because of their paranoia, aggressive verbal attacks and other behaviors. Out of sense of duty, we do our best to be supportive. Nothing helps. Their therapist now refuses to see them because of threats of lawsuits. <br />Your comments about generalizations and "helping" are a bunch of politically correct bsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post-40243692737779364342012-09-26T11:12:29.501+01:002012-09-26T11:12:29.501+01:00I'm sorry that this was of no help to you. Alt...I'm sorry that this was of no help to you. Although I am entirely unclear as to what information you were looking for..? <br /><br />However, I *completely* disagree with the many genralisations you make in your reply. <br /><br />I also believe it is wrong to say that people with mental health problems (like myself) have no social skills. That is a generalisation -- and a wholly inaccurate one too.<br /><br />Your generalisations are ignoring the complexities of mental illnesses -- as well as dismissing those with mental health problems as being, in your view (or so it seems, please correct me if I'm wrong) nothing but a nuisance. I say this because you talk in terms of "Dealing" with people, as opposed to "Helping" people.<br /><br />Unfortunately it is *exactly* these sorts of generalisations which contribute towards prejudiced attitudes towards those who have a mental health diagnosis.<br /><br />Regards,<br />Nicola E.Free Your Mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01195205284778002096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430956636268768020.post-41225922735167622312012-09-25T14:56:17.353+01:002012-09-25T14:56:17.353+01:00Sorry but this is no help. We need ways of dealing...Sorry but this is no help. We need ways of dealing with people who do not have social skills.<br />When mentally ill people are desperate, they often resort to dishonesty. They'll sleep in a tent outdoors and say they're former marines when they were never in the armed forces at all. They'll ask their relatives for money when the relatives know they'll piss it away. They sometimes will refuse medication for no other reason than that they do not like the intake nurse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com